We always seem to gravitate to someone who expresses our feelings inside,
rather than searching for someone who brings the best of us out. All this
while what we don’t understand is the concept that less we feel comfortable
about ourselves and the less satisfaction we have inside us, the more likely
we are to try
relationships with the wrong people.
A relationship is like a living entity, it needs attention and nourishment,
and it needs them regularly, not just once in a while. It refers to all kinds
of relationships, not just romantic, although here are discussing various love
relationships with a partner in this blog.
Types of Relationships
Marriage
Marriage is the traditional institution, it is the mechanism by which two
individual announce publicly, officially their relationship. They become their
life partner when they marry each other. Its joining two people in a potential
partnership, being legally tied together. Marriages are organized in many
cultures. The marriage structure has evolved over the years.
Nonetheless, essentially the same thing remains that marriage is the link
between two individuals and that these two persons ideally love each other
deeply, but sometimes
marriage has difficulties, many of which are profound.
Live-In Relationship
Nowadays every millennium believes that the bond that binds marriage is must
be optional for them. They believe in relationships, but without its
obligations and responsibilities. This is when one engages in a live-in
relationship. This arrangement is usually made by consent, either to test the
compatibility before marriage or simply to avoid the difficulties of a formal
marriage. Keeping in mind the reason, there is an increase in the number of
couples who choose a live-in relationship before marriage. People enjoy being
in this kind of relationship as there is no fear of divorce, there is mutual
respect, fewer responsibilities, and the main issue is no legal
difficulties.
Although, dating someone and having someone in the house 24×7 is a very
different experience. With a constant company in the house, the living
partners may feel the lack of space and me-time in their lives. This cramped
feeling could lead to a bitter break-up.
Before a
couple approaches their relationship
also decides whether or not their relationship breaks down, they must try and
understand the ways to heal the there broken relationship.
Many people see value in themselves in the context of an external measuring
stick: a good relationship, a happy family. But they forgot what they should
stick to is being internally happy i.e. Self-care, It is all about doing
things doing what brings you rest and doing what brings your life. For
example, doing things like putting puzzles together, reading or having a deep
conversation can give rest while something as simple as taking a walk brings
together.
Self-care can also include, capturing negative thoughts and test them with
truth, breathing deeply to relax. Self-care doesn’t mean being selfish and
stealing time from your spouse. Instead, good self-care refreshes you so that
when you and your spouse connect, you can give him or her the time and
attention needed to strengthen your marriage.
Whereas, people who give up completely for someone else will eventually resent
the other person, while the other person may very well expect that their
partner will always be there for them, doing something for them. Feelings of
anxiety
can begin to bubble up as you realize that youre always doing something for
others, with little in return. Left unchecked, those resentments can build-up
to the point where you end up having arguments about things that dont even
matter just because you need to take a stand on something, anything. These
irrational positions are just the beginning of a breakdown in communication
between two people, which, if not checked, can become toxic.
Many people assume that the love of another person is all about a happy
relationship, or marriage advice is only assured as soon as a connection
reaches rocky shores. Both of these traditional beliefs are false: it takes
work to create a romantic relationship and experience, whereas marital therapy
will help even when things seem to be going well.